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Interested in Threesome? How to Start?

start threesome datingYou may have come to the realization that something is missing in your life. You may already have a partner, but things in the bedroom have been dull lately. Perhaps you’ve both realized that it’s time to spice things up a bit. Or, if you’re single, perhaps you’re looking for threesomes. Either way, you’re not the conventional type of person with old-fashioned values. It’s now the 21st century, and anything goes, as long as everyone is having fun.

But now that you’ve decided you’d like to try threesome dating, how do you get started? You can’t ask your boss at work—how embarrassing would that be?

Here are 5 ways that you can get started in threesome dating, to make it funner and easier for you.

  1. Search for events. If you live in a medium or large-sized city most likely there are hundreds of bars and nightclubs. Did you know that most have special events several times a month? What you’re searching for is something beyond the usual. Perhaps you can check out any event that says: singles, couples, fetish, steampunk, bondage, or S&M. Chances are higher that there will be people in attendance who are also looking for threesome.
  1. Threesome sites. Just like there are regular dating sites online, there are also several sites for adults who are seeking threesome. Some of these sites are better than others so check the online reviews. You may wish to sign up for more than one at once, but don’t try more than 3 at a time, otherwise you’ll be spending all your time online and not on real threesome dates!
  1. Say you’re a newbie. Don’t be afraid to let people know it’s your first time. The more experienced people will provide guidance. It can be like you’ve joined your very own community, and even if you’re not attracted to everyone, you can still make friends in the community so you have somewhere to turn for advice.
  1. Use protection. The only safe sex is protected sex. There are so many diseases today, don’t believe it when a partner says “they’re clean”. Cleanliness has nothing to do with it, and HIV and STDs can have no outward symptoms. It’s not worth a few minutes of release only to pick up a nasty disease you’ll have for life.
  1. Be fun and respectful.The guy or gal who has a sense of humor and isn’t too serious is the one who’s going to get called again when partners are going to be looking for threesomes. You want to be that person. Debbie Downer and Creepy Guy are not going to get that second call or text. Remember to always respect people’s boundaries. If your threesome is two guys and a gal, the guys may not want to interact. Maybe the gals don’t want to interact. Move on!

Everyone has to start somewhere. Sign up for your threesome sites and start browsing profiles now.