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Threesomes: Do All Guys Want a Real Practice?

do you want a threesome?       My friends and I threw a huge end of the year party. We had fireworks during and after the countdown. Champagne bottles were everywhere as well as the caps popping through the window. We were living the time of our lives. We had loud music after 12 am, weed, alcohol, and chips everywhere. After calming down from an all day party adventure, we have decided to settle down on the couch and bean bag, and engage in a philosophical conversation. We dwell on the topics of hookups and threesomes. My friend Michael has claimed that he had often fantasized about engaging in an erotic threesome. Fortunately, he was given that opportunity couple hours ago.  Two girls had snuck into my party half drunk and high, and had offer themselves to him, but he had happily declined. I was shock by his response, it was his fantasy,so why did he deny them?

Guys fantasize about a threesome all the time. They would imagine all sorts of creative sexual positions that they can perform and take advantage. Unfortunately, actual, real sex is different from fantasy sex. In a threesome, the guy would have to have extraordinary stamina, and be able to maneuver and pleasure two girls in a quick and skillful manner. For example, if he were to penetrate one girl and give her an orgasm, he has to switch position and pleasure the other girl and give her pleasure as well. He would have to ensure that he does not ejaculate too early or else the party is over. In reality, this would be very difficult to perform, and no guy would want to be a disappointment in front of two pretty ladies. In addition, If the guy is not in shape and does not have superman stamina, they will less likely want a threesome. I know for sure that the average guy is no superman.

In the fantasy world, threesomes are amazing because the girls are fighting for the man’s attention. In reality, the guy has to make sure that both girls get his attention equally. Michael’s fear is that one girl will be mad and jealous because he was paying too much attention to the other girl. He was also scare that during sex, he will spend too much time concentrating on his performance and pleasing both girls that he would lose his erection. He will then end up disappointing both girls. All of this contemplating back and forth can ruin the dynamics of sex. In the fantasy world, threesomes are mindless, meaningless, and non-judgemental, but in reality, it’s the complete opposite.

Whenever, a girl gets penetrated, hormones and endorphins are fluctuating like crazy. She will most likely fall in love and want to be intimate and close. In the fantasy world, two girls can have sex and leave without any regrets. In reality, two girls having sex with a guy can lead to uncomfortable feelings that can linger. It can get uncomfortable for the guy as well. It could also get awkward and  can be very difficult to shake off. Some people may claim that if three parties are mature, they can just have fun and leave the emotional side tuck away. Unfortunately, it’s not that easy. Sex can stimulate intimacy, closeness, desire, and love. It can cause regrets and harm to one and another. Even if both sides are mature, it can still subconsciously cause a deep scar. If the threesome is performed more than once, the situation can get worse, and eventually the relationship between three people would go down the drain.

People often say that guys don’t fall in love easily after sex. Sometimes the unexplainable can happen where a guy does fall for one of the girls during a threesome. This can be tough because the girl in the threesome may not reciprocate that love. It will be hard to return the love to a guy who had also have sex with another girl in front of her, It be like total betrayal. This could be very difficult for the guy who has fallen for the girl. We have often consider a threesome to lack emotional attachment, but in reality this is not true. When there is penetration, there is always some emotional attachment. Even with prostitutes who get paid for their services, have to deal with these emotions professionally.  These emotions can linger on subconsciously.

guys go for threesomesA threesome is a great experience to try once or twice, but not something to do constantly. We have to consider the increase chance of getting an STD. People would debate that a condoms can protect you from an STD, but during a threesome, the friction is twice as fast and hard. This can cause accidental breakage of the condom exposing the individual to an STD. The guy would have to be prudent, but the extra precaution is added stress to the activity which can destroy the fun out of it. This is completely different from the fantasy world, where STDs do not exist.

After pondering about the reality of a hook up, kinky threesome, it does make sense why Michael would shy away from them despite his constant fantasy. It doesn’t just happen to Michael, but other guys do feel the same pressure to perform combine with lingering emotions. Plus, guys prefer the one on one connection with a girl. They like that true intimacy with one person. When they have sex with one person, the stamina and pressure to perform is lower than a threesome. If intimacy and closeness does form, it can develop more smoothly than it would have in a threesome. In the fantasy world, a threesome is a dream to come true. It can build up the guy’s reputation and make them feel more dominant and accomplish. However, in real life a threesome can be very difficult to maintain, awkward, and stressful.

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